Go to 9 minutes 22 seconds and listen for a minute. 1. Remind you of things they do for you 2. Conditional love When you go against them they go silent on you. Children of narcisists are often people pleasers. Children have a sense that they need to earn love. Narcisists have no bounderies. They see them as their property. 3. Jealousy Narc Mothers with daughters Narc mothers see everything they are not (youth and beauty) Work to compete with daughter and to hurt her self esteem. 4. Take credit for your accomplishments only in public but not in private. They will tell others but they will not tell you that they are proud. 5. Lack of Empathy No empathy and they cannot deal with you if you are in pain, but rather they enjoy your pain. 6. Infantalize their children Keep children dependent. How? Set them up to fail. Train them to be helpless. Basics are not taught. Pull rug out from under children when they are not falling in line with ...
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